“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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- Thread starter nan3109
- Start date
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I'm here telling you that post is wrong. The person who said that must have been in a relationship where their girlfriend cheated. And rather than accept that she didn't love him, he protected his ego and made a statement on that blaming it on something else. Trust me, if she's into you, trust her - let her have the opportunity to cheat. If she loves you she won't even think about it. She'll only think about you. if she DOES cheat then she didn't like you enough to be worth your time anyway.
-Blitz
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I think that's nan's point. When some one cheats (guy or girl) they found someone they like better.
You just got to keep the attraction level high...
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
The way Nan worded it, is wrong.
When you are in a healthy relationship, there should be no worries about cheating....It's once the relationship starts to grow stale, that cheating would occur.
If she loves you, then you have no worries.
What the other thread was getting at was that if a better guy comes along, the girl will most likely leave her Bf for the new guy; IF things have gotten to the point where she no longer cares for him, anyways.
That's where the "shallowness" occurs. Most women aren't as guilty minded when it comes to looking out for their own interests. They could care less who they hurt, as long as they get the good end of the deal.(which they usually do). Most of the guys on here can atest to that statement.
The Bad Ass Canadian
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
They only as hot as you make em out to be... if they too hot for you, then why should they be with you? They'll find someone hotter, or equal.
It's true, if you maintain, and keep your head on straight, and keep the mystery alive, cheating doesn't cross their minds. I don't care if Brad Pitt walked in... they will be loyal.
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
Just have as much fun as you can before she moves... forget the rest.
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
...she movin, I'd focus on having as much of a good time as I can before she left, right(?) ..what you want to do is make such an impact, that when she's in another city, all she could do is think about you. Trust me, keep them thinking. If she cries when she says good-bye, congrats, ya did it. ....hell, that's what I did with my ex-wife. She moved away, and as soon as she could drive, she drove back down to see me. We got married, a few years after that, then got divorced, but that's something else I don't want to talk about..