"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Start talking fluff talk and superficial speak and get a long convo going... start trailing off with your words, looking off into the distant... then BAM! "So, do you have a crush on me?" while being bold and staring straight into her eyes, not smiling or smirking... but seeming totally "serious". It's more fun if you're good at reading body language and how people react.
They'd most likely be shocked that you'd be forward like that and take a while to process it.
If you do this, you better be one hell of a funny/confident/witty guy... because you have to throw a funny/confident/witty comment after they reply.
wj-mchster-92
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The answer is you never will. Girls do not make sense. Girls do not think logically and do not do things that 'normal' people would do. Girls are not normal and should not be treated as normal.
You could meet a girl tomorrow, end up marrying her, grow old together, die, and be buried together. Does she really like you though? Most would say yes, but hey, what if she was only with you because you were rich? You will never really know.
Here's what you're going to do for me, depending on how well you know each other. Obviously you have talked before if you are even asking this question.
You will walk up and initiate a hug while greeting.
You will NOT start the conversation with "How are you?"
You will tell her to put her number in your phone because you two are going to do something crazy, insane, and completely illegal this [insert day].
Call her [day] and tell her what you two are doing. If she has plans, strike one. It's the same as baseball, and don't give her mulligans.
Hang out, isolate, make a fvcking move, get rejected? Oh well, move on. It worked? Great. Continue.
Five To One
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You dont need to know if she likes you, not knowing is half the fun. I love going to bed at night and have a girl to ponder about because im just not sure where I stand with her, "what does she think of me? does she like me?"
It keeps your life interesting
People think that their life must constantly be fun and happy and successful.
A rollercoaster ride of emotions, the ups of success and downs of rejection is what makes life fun. Who knows what will happen next.
because variety is the spice of life
I rambled but I think thats something that many guys fail to understand, just dont worry where you stand with her, dont worry about anything, and enjoy the ride.