"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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- Thread starter Ectomorph
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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Start talking fluff talk and superficial speak and get a long convo going... start trailing off with your words, looking off into the distant... then BAM! "So, do you have a crush on me?" while being bold and staring straight into her eyes, not smiling or smirking... but seeming totally "serious". It's more fun if you're good at reading body language and how people react.
They'd most likely be shocked that you'd be forward like that and take a while to process it.
If you do this, you better be one hell of a funny/confident/witty guy... because you have to throw a funny/confident/witty comment after they reply.
wj-mchster-92
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The answer is you never will. Girls do not make sense. Girls do not think logically and do not do things that 'normal' people would do. Girls are not normal and should not be treated as normal.
You could meet a girl tomorrow, end up marrying her, grow old together, die, and be buried together. Does she really like you though? Most would say yes, but hey, what if she was only with you because you were rich? You will never really know.
Here's what you're going to do for me, depending on how well you know each other. Obviously you have talked before if you are even asking this question.
You will walk up and initiate a hug while greeting.
You will NOT start the conversation with "How are you?"
You will tell her to put her number in your phone because you two are going to do something crazy, insane, and completely illegal this [insert day].
Call her [day] and tell her what you two are doing. If she has plans, strike one. It's the same as baseball, and don't give her mulligans.
Hang out, isolate, make a fvcking move, get rejected? Oh well, move on. It worked? Great. Continue.
Five To One
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You dont need to know if she likes you, not knowing is half the fun. I love going to bed at night and have a girl to ponder about because im just not sure where I stand with her, "what does she think of me? does she like me?"
It keeps your life interesting
People think that their life must constantly be fun and happy and successful.
A rollercoaster ride of emotions, the ups of success and downs of rejection is what makes life fun. Who knows what will happen next.
because variety is the spice of life
I rambled but I think thats something that many guys fail to understand, just dont worry where you stand with her, dont worry about anything, and enjoy the ride.