"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to work out on back muscles..

arcilitei34

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With only a set of free weights?
I've only got a bench press, bench bar, and dumbell's, was wondering how I could possibly work on my back muscles with those only.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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barbell row, dumbell row, good mournings, deadlift, reverse pushup.

Doorway pullup bars sell for $10-15 on ebay if you are interested in pullups.
 

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your back has 3 areas

upper back/neck, trapezius
middle back, lats
lower back

deadlifts will cover lower back primarily, and to a second degree upper
rowing movements will cover lat thickness
pullups, or lat pulldowns will cover lat width
shrugs, rack deads will cover traps

begin with deads, move on to rows, then follow with pullups and finally shrugs, 3 sets each exercise, 8-12 reps.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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