"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to word this.

navyseal2101

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Later today i'm seeing a new girl. She's got a BF which isnt a problem as im not interested in being hers, I just want a 1 or a few times thing. Should I bring that up as "lets chill sometime, gimme your number and ill call you for details" and then when were chilling work in the sexual aspect or just say "lets ****, gimme your number so i can tell you when". Im not sure the second one wouldd work, but it would get the real message across, and less ork when we are hanging out to try to initiate it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stacks Of Terror

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You could say it like a joke and playfully work it in or you could do the first and see her reaction.
 

navyseal2101

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Would a women usually respond well to a strong come-on like that? If I joked about it and she wasnt serious but said sure then what, go along with it as a joke or what?
 

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Build a comfort level with her first before coming on with the strong strong comments.

First get her to just hang out with you, which could be a mission within itself depending on the severity of their relationship. If she is willing to spend time with you w/o her bf there, that's a sign of comfort already.

Gradually build comfort, use subtle hints, and see how she reacts, build comfort and use kino.

So in a nutshell, BUILD COMFORT. By comfort I mean creating a relaxed, FUN, environment.


Comfort, is going to be the key to differentiate yourself from the other mindless teenagers who are trying to have sex with her, including the one she is in a serious relationship with.

Good luck.

-SCF
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Unless she is not happy or satisfied with her boyfriend. You most likely won't be able to screw her. Why not just find a single girl?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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If she accepts you might not want to do it. STDs are a silent, tantalizing, deadly killer.
 
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