"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to word this.

navyseal2101

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Later today i'm seeing a new girl. She's got a BF which isnt a problem as im not interested in being hers, I just want a 1 or a few times thing. Should I bring that up as "lets chill sometime, gimme your number and ill call you for details" and then when were chilling work in the sexual aspect or just say "lets ****, gimme your number so i can tell you when". Im not sure the second one wouldd work, but it would get the real message across, and less ork when we are hanging out to try to initiate it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stacks Of Terror

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You could say it like a joke and playfully work it in or you could do the first and see her reaction.
 

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Would a women usually respond well to a strong come-on like that? If I joked about it and she wasnt serious but said sure then what, go along with it as a joke or what?
 

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Build a comfort level with her first before coming on with the strong strong comments.

First get her to just hang out with you, which could be a mission within itself depending on the severity of their relationship. If she is willing to spend time with you w/o her bf there, that's a sign of comfort already.

Gradually build comfort, use subtle hints, and see how she reacts, build comfort and use kino.

So in a nutshell, BUILD COMFORT. By comfort I mean creating a relaxed, FUN, environment.


Comfort, is going to be the key to differentiate yourself from the other mindless teenagers who are trying to have sex with her, including the one she is in a serious relationship with.

Good luck.

-SCF
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Unless she is not happy or satisfied with her boyfriend. You most likely won't be able to screw her. Why not just find a single girl?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If she accepts you might not want to do it. STDs are a silent, tantalizing, deadly killer.
 
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