"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to word this.

navyseal2101

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Later today i'm seeing a new girl. She's got a BF which isnt a problem as im not interested in being hers, I just want a 1 or a few times thing. Should I bring that up as "lets chill sometime, gimme your number and ill call you for details" and then when were chilling work in the sexual aspect or just say "lets ****, gimme your number so i can tell you when". Im not sure the second one wouldd work, but it would get the real message across, and less ork when we are hanging out to try to initiate it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stacks Of Terror

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You could say it like a joke and playfully work it in or you could do the first and see her reaction.
 

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Would a women usually respond well to a strong come-on like that? If I joked about it and she wasnt serious but said sure then what, go along with it as a joke or what?
 

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Build a comfort level with her first before coming on with the strong strong comments.

First get her to just hang out with you, which could be a mission within itself depending on the severity of their relationship. If she is willing to spend time with you w/o her bf there, that's a sign of comfort already.

Gradually build comfort, use subtle hints, and see how she reacts, build comfort and use kino.

So in a nutshell, BUILD COMFORT. By comfort I mean creating a relaxed, FUN, environment.


Comfort, is going to be the key to differentiate yourself from the other mindless teenagers who are trying to have sex with her, including the one she is in a serious relationship with.

Good luck.

-SCF
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Unless she is not happy or satisfied with her boyfriend. You most likely won't be able to screw her. Why not just find a single girl?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If she accepts you might not want to do it. STDs are a silent, tantalizing, deadly killer.
 
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