"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to wax that @ss again

Phonk Beta

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My ex and I are chillin again. The other night I helped her move into a new place she got. Well, we started talking about sex and and old times and she let me hit it. Well, later that night, we went to one of our favorite restaurants that we used to go to all the time. We went back to her place and nothing happened. This tuesday, I'm supposed to go to her place to have dinner with her. What should I do to increase the chances of waxing that @ss again??
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TurboLover

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"Hey, would you like a back rub?"

If yes, your chances dun increased.
 

TurboLover

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Almost forgot, tell her that you have a secret you been wanting to tell her. Then go in like you going to whisper in her ear. Say nothing then when moving back give her a kiss on the cheek. Judging by her reaction, as in if she doesnt freak out, go for the lips your right there.

That ****'s money.
 

dietzcoi

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I think your attitude is somewhat wrong

Don't think "she let YOU hit it"

Think, I let her have the d1ck!

I think you will see what I mean. Why let a woman be the one deciding what is going to happen? Makes you a supplicator.

Dietzcoi
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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how about a change in atitude. You said she let you hit it, what happened to her wanting it as much as you if not more.
 
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