How to Use My Gift

[BreezyB84]

My gift has always been with words... Words, I dont know how I got it, but i have always been pretty decent with words..
I am writer as a hobby and part time occupation...Its how I deal with things and its how I am able to be clear about all my actions and deal with the intensity of life.

Can I use this to my advantage?? If so, how do I use it without coming off as too intense? When would I use it? I dont even know where to start. In my life, I had dealings with 62 women and ive written about every single one of them... I want to get these things out..

Thank you.

 

[HoneyHitter]

"Pretty decent with words" is not enough.

I could help you find out how to use your gift to improve almost every aspect of your life, but I doubt you're willing to do what it takes to get there. It takes more effort, dedication and time than most people are able to put forth.

 

[backbreaker]

Online dating.

Put your best foot forward first.

 

[BreezyB84]

"Pretty decent with words" is not enough.

I could help you find out how to use your gift to improve almost every aspect of your life, but I doubt you're willing to do what it takes to get there. It takes more effort, dedication and time than most people are able to put forth.

I would like to know. I wouldn't have asked if I didn't want to know..

 

[HoneyHitter]

I would like to know. I wouldn't have asked if I didn't want to know..

PM me your age, education level, occupation, living situation and I'll give you some pointers. You're expected to respond within 24 hours after this post.

 

[Desdinova]

I am writer as a hobby and part time occupation

I write as a hobby as well. However, writing has never got me laid. My sense of humour has though.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

"Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I'll bed the queen of France."

- Voltaire

Words are cheap. It's the emotions and confidence behind them that does the trick.

You want to get good with words? Learn to sell. Once you're easily making 100K+ per year by spitting words and getting people to fork over stacks of cash, then you can claim you're "good with words."

How do you really KNOW you are "good with words?"

How EXACTLY do you measure this "goodness"?

Can you walk into a club and get the hottest girl to leave with you ONLY with words? Not clothing, or money, or looks?

 

[Atom Smasher]

Being good with words with women is about piquing her interest first and then creating a dynamic give-and-take of humor, irony, fun, and mystery.

You need to evaluate the chemistry and then put it to work for you by establishing dominance in a way that is fun for her.

OP, I get the sense that you like to write about women, but you don't know how to use the spoken word to conduct a cat-and-mouse conversation with them. You are correct that intensity is usually a huge turn-off to women. I suggest that you practice simple small-talk with both men and women throughout the day and take an interest in them when you do.

Backbreaker is right... online dating is great for the wordsmith, but the fact is that no matter how much of a bond you create with your writing, she has to fall in love all over again when she meets you. Take it from me... I know. I can make them go wild for me with my writing, but then the dynamic is largely reset upon meeting in-person.

 

[backbreaker]

The thing about sales is it has very little to do with words.

1. Understand the customers problem thoroughly and demonstrate such
2. Show that you or the product you are selling is uniquely qualified to fix the problem


If a girl is horny your **** is the solution. If a girl is looking to have fun showing her you can make her laugh and give her a good time us the problem