"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to Use My Gift

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My gift has always been with words... Words, I dont know how I got it, but i have always been pretty decent with words..
I am writer as a hobby and part time occupation...Its how I deal with things and its how I am able to be clear about all my actions and deal with the intensity of life.

Can I use this to my advantage?? If so, how do I use it without coming off as too intense? When would I use it? I dont even know where to start. In my life, I had dealings with 62 women and ive written about every single one of them... I want to get these things out..

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Pretty decent with words" is not enough.

I could help you find out how to use your gift to improve almost every aspect of your life, but I doubt you're willing to do what it takes to get there. It takes more effort, dedication and time than most people are able to put forth.
 
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HoneyHitter said:
"Pretty decent with words" is not enough.

I could help you find out how to use your gift to improve almost every aspect of your life, but I doubt you're willing to do what it takes to get there. It takes more effort, dedication and time than most people are able to put forth.
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I would like to know. I wouldn't have asked if I didn't want to know..
 
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BreezyB84 said:
I would like to know. I wouldn't have asked if I didn't want to know..
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PM me your age, education level, occupation, living situation and I'll give you some pointers. You're expected to respond within 24 hours after this post.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"Give me ten minutes to talk away my ugly face and I'll bed the queen of France."

- Voltaire

Words are cheap. It's the emotions and confidence behind them that does the trick.

You want to get good with words? Learn to sell. Once you're easily making 100K+ per year by spitting words and getting people to fork over stacks of cash, then you can claim you're "good with words."

How do you really KNOW you are "good with words?"

How EXACTLY do you measure this "goodness"?

Can you walk into a club and get the hottest girl to leave with you ONLY with words? Not clothing, or money, or looks?
 
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Being good with words with women is about piquing her interest first and then creating a dynamic give-and-take of humor, irony, fun, and mystery.

You need to evaluate the chemistry and then put it to work for you by establishing dominance in a way that is fun for her.

OP, I get the sense that you like to write about women, but you don't know how to use the spoken word to conduct a cat-and-mouse conversation with them. You are correct that intensity is usually a huge turn-off to women. I suggest that you practice simple small-talk with both men and women throughout the day and take an interest in them when you do.

Backbreaker is right... online dating is great for the wordsmith, but the fact is that no matter how much of a bond you create with your writing, she has to fall in love all over again when she meets you. Take it from me... I know. I can make them go wild for me with my writing, but then the dynamic is largely reset upon meeting in-person.
 
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The thing about sales is it has very little to do with words.

1. Understand the customers problem thoroughly and demonstrate such
2. Show that you or the product you are selling is uniquely qualified to fix the problem


If a girl is horny your **** is the solution. If a girl is looking to have fun showing her you can make her laugh and give her a good time us the problem
 
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