Long story short, i'm a bit of an AFC. I recently started a new job and there's a killer girl there. Unfortunately, I have made it blatantly obvious that i'm keen on her and have even asked her to lunch (to which she replied, it's not a good idea because we work together). Basically, I know she has a little thing for me but I also know from talking to people that she is terrified of rumours starting and putting her job in jeopardy by going out with a co-worker. Right now I know I give her far too much attention and everyone can see I have a thing for her just because I joke and talk with her every chance I get. So, is it possible at this point to turn the tables and get her chasing me to the point where she doesn't care about rumours etc? I can't just all of a sudden start ignoring her because then i'll just look like an ass but is there anything I can do to improve the situation?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How to turn the tables and get her chasing me?
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