"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to turn the conversation sexual?

Genos

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So I was talking to this girl today, she was telling me about an internship she did over the summer.

The entire time, I was consciously thinking to myself, "this conversation is boring, just a bunch of fluff - it's not increasing her attraction at all!" I did a bit of teasing and bantering, but on the whole it's not what I'd call a DJ-level conversation.

For these types of conversations (which happen pretty much every day), how can I make things more fun, flirty, or sexual?

The old "oh what classes are you taking? What's your major?" etc., etc. is not where I want to be I think. Any advice in general, for making a conversation about everyday matters and schoolwork more fun and exciting?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Konduit said:
So I was talking to this girl today, she was telling me about an internship she did over the summer.

The entire time, I was consciously thinking to myself, "this conversation is boring, just a bunch of fluff - it's not increasing her attraction at all!" I did a bit of teasing and bantering, but on the whole it's not what I'd call a DJ-level conversation.

For these types of conversations (which happen pretty much every day), how can I make things more fun, flirty, or sexual?

The old "oh what classes are you taking? What's your major?" etc., etc. is not where I want to be I think. Any advice in general, for making a conversation about everyday matters and schoolwork more fun and exciting?
Only question I have here for you is this....

HAVE YOU ASKED HER OUT YET?

You want to turn the conversation sexual? ASK HER OUT on a date.

Asking a girl out on a date IS being sexual. It's showing sexual interest in her,letting her know you see her in a romantic/sexual light.

Talking about her internship,classes,what her majors are and stuff like that WITHOUT ASKING HER OUT (showing sexual interest) will lead you straight to the FRIENDZONE.
 

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Just blantantly ask her if she has any tatoos or piercings... If yes, ask where...if she shows you make it a point to touch it abd say oh nice or did it hurt when u got it?...if she says no, tell her you got one of such and such but you can't show her in public....you have to say it with a ****y grin ....then when she acts serious laugh abd say are you always that gullible....

Basically, to get sexual you have to be bold...don't 've scared of being awkwsrd or creepy....just say it and touch her abd eventually you will get a lot smoother at it with practice.... just don't be the boring nice guy do what your **** wants....

Also.... you can let her catch you staring at her legs or ass or even lips...when she notices. .say oh sorry I was staring at your legs guilty as charged abd laugh....be bold man and have fun....it will immediately seperate u from the rest of the guys who talk to her and plus it just feels good...

When she responds well.....ask her out get her number...
 

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I don't usually even bother turning the conversation sexual. Just make physical moves at an appropriate time when you're alone with her. Go ahead and talk about boring **** for a while like normal human beings, then start making out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I kino like hell - and they usually reciprocate

But I will hit them with loads of sexual banter, I'm pretty good at turning loads of things into sexual innuendos, so i'll chat and kino, and then as soon as they something that can be misconstrued BHAM - hit them with a funny response to what they just said - and I make out that they are the ones talking filth......
 

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If you have trouble talking sexual with a new plate take her out for a surprise visit to the adult bookstore. Tell her you recently posed for playgirl and want to see if it was printed. When you see a playgirl in the store ask her to look in it to see if u are in it
 
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