"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to turn the conversation sexual?

Genos

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So I was talking to this girl today, she was telling me about an internship she did over the summer.

The entire time, I was consciously thinking to myself, "this conversation is boring, just a bunch of fluff - it's not increasing her attraction at all!" I did a bit of teasing and bantering, but on the whole it's not what I'd call a DJ-level conversation.

For these types of conversations (which happen pretty much every day), how can I make things more fun, flirty, or sexual?

The old "oh what classes are you taking? What's your major?" etc., etc. is not where I want to be I think. Any advice in general, for making a conversation about everyday matters and schoolwork more fun and exciting?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Konduit said:
So I was talking to this girl today, she was telling me about an internship she did over the summer.

The entire time, I was consciously thinking to myself, "this conversation is boring, just a bunch of fluff - it's not increasing her attraction at all!" I did a bit of teasing and bantering, but on the whole it's not what I'd call a DJ-level conversation.

For these types of conversations (which happen pretty much every day), how can I make things more fun, flirty, or sexual?

The old "oh what classes are you taking? What's your major?" etc., etc. is not where I want to be I think. Any advice in general, for making a conversation about everyday matters and schoolwork more fun and exciting?
Only question I have here for you is this....

HAVE YOU ASKED HER OUT YET?

You want to turn the conversation sexual? ASK HER OUT on a date.

Asking a girl out on a date IS being sexual. It's showing sexual interest in her,letting her know you see her in a romantic/sexual light.

Talking about her internship,classes,what her majors are and stuff like that WITHOUT ASKING HER OUT (showing sexual interest) will lead you straight to the FRIENDZONE.
 

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Just blantantly ask her if she has any tatoos or piercings... If yes, ask where...if she shows you make it a point to touch it abd say oh nice or did it hurt when u got it?...if she says no, tell her you got one of such and such but you can't show her in public....you have to say it with a ****y grin ....then when she acts serious laugh abd say are you always that gullible....

Basically, to get sexual you have to be bold...don't 've scared of being awkwsrd or creepy....just say it and touch her abd eventually you will get a lot smoother at it with practice.... just don't be the boring nice guy do what your **** wants....

Also.... you can let her catch you staring at her legs or ass or even lips...when she notices. .say oh sorry I was staring at your legs guilty as charged abd laugh....be bold man and have fun....it will immediately seperate u from the rest of the guys who talk to her and plus it just feels good...

When she responds well.....ask her out get her number...
 

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I don't usually even bother turning the conversation sexual. Just make physical moves at an appropriate time when you're alone with her. Go ahead and talk about boring **** for a while like normal human beings, then start making out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I kino like hell - and they usually reciprocate

But I will hit them with loads of sexual banter, I'm pretty good at turning loads of things into sexual innuendos, so i'll chat and kino, and then as soon as they something that can be misconstrued BHAM - hit them with a funny response to what they just said - and I make out that they are the ones talking filth......
 

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If you have trouble talking sexual with a new plate take her out for a surprise visit to the adult bookstore. Tell her you recently posed for playgirl and want to see if it was printed. When you see a playgirl in the store ask her to look in it to see if u are in it
 
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