"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to turn off my "nice guy nature" please guide me!

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jackhamma

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I use to be great at not giving a crap. I was able to turn off emotions, and turn off from getting attached to a female other then just smashing. Since I moved to a new city the past 4 years I have become more of the nice guy to make friends etc.

Sadly....I am now carrying the nice guy attitude into my dating and its killing me.

Between online dating sites and real time cold approaching I start off GREAT. I have tats and sorta give off the bad boy vibe but as soon as I number close and set up a date I become mr nice guy. I have had women say "I expected you to be a bit more bad boy based on your look...but your nice..."

Is that a bad thing? I am sick of being mr nice guy. PLEASE help me get the old don't give a crap mindset back!!

Tips, opinions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bingo-Player

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You just need to change your attitude on women

They ARENT perfect princesses waiting for you to rescues them from the evil knight

The majority of them are unfaithful slvts that trade goods, services & game in exchange for spreading they’re legs

The sooner you realise that any single one isn’t as special as you first thought the quicker you will be on your way to not giving a fvck
 
lgbs2004

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Just have in mind that every woman is a ***** until she proves otherwise and in my experience they never do! :crackup: :crackup:
 
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Sometimes people try to please others when their self esteem takes a bit of a whack. Do you feel you used to be more confident than you are now?
 
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