"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to turn off my "nice guy nature" please guide me!

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jackhamma

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I use to be great at not giving a crap. I was able to turn off emotions, and turn off from getting attached to a female other then just smashing. Since I moved to a new city the past 4 years I have become more of the nice guy to make friends etc.

Sadly....I am now carrying the nice guy attitude into my dating and its killing me.

Between online dating sites and real time cold approaching I start off GREAT. I have tats and sorta give off the bad boy vibe but as soon as I number close and set up a date I become mr nice guy. I have had women say "I expected you to be a bit more bad boy based on your look...but your nice..."

Is that a bad thing? I am sick of being mr nice guy. PLEASE help me get the old don't give a crap mindset back!!

Tips, opinions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bingo-Player

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You just need to change your attitude on women

They ARENT perfect princesses waiting for you to rescues them from the evil knight

The majority of them are unfaithful slvts that trade goods, services & game in exchange for spreading they’re legs

The sooner you realise that any single one isn’t as special as you first thought the quicker you will be on your way to not giving a fvck
 
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Just have in mind that every woman is a ***** until she proves otherwise and in my experience they never do! :crackup: :crackup:
 
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Sometimes people try to please others when their self esteem takes a bit of a whack. Do you feel you used to be more confident than you are now?
 
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