"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to turn off my "nice guy nature" please guide me!

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I use to be great at not giving a crap. I was able to turn off emotions, and turn off from getting attached to a female other then just smashing. Since I moved to a new city the past 4 years I have become more of the nice guy to make friends etc.

Sadly....I am now carrying the nice guy attitude into my dating and its killing me.

Between online dating sites and real time cold approaching I start off GREAT. I have tats and sorta give off the bad boy vibe but as soon as I number close and set up a date I become mr nice guy. I have had women say "I expected you to be a bit more bad boy based on your look...but your nice..."

Is that a bad thing? I am sick of being mr nice guy. PLEASE help me get the old don't give a crap mindset back!!

Tips, opinions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bingo-Player

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You just need to change your attitude on women

They ARENT perfect princesses waiting for you to rescues them from the evil knight

The majority of them are unfaithful slvts that trade goods, services & game in exchange for spreading they’re legs

The sooner you realise that any single one isn’t as special as you first thought the quicker you will be on your way to not giving a fvck
 
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Just have in mind that every woman is a ***** until she proves otherwise and in my experience they never do! :crackup: :crackup:
 
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Sometimes people try to please others when their self esteem takes a bit of a whack. Do you feel you used to be more confident than you are now?
 
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