"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to truly get woman?

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Read through a bunch of stuff on here im talking hours of stuff and want to retain as much info as possible. Little about me got a good job im 5'10 well built good smile good sense of humor laidback. Im not a model but most woman will say im pretty handsome. For example there is thick chick who is a bartender at this local bar real cute. We've never "flirted but she kinda knows me etc etc. We've talked friendly before i really want to bang her as she is cute. How would i go about this? My style of flirting is im pretty ****y and ill walk up say something like whatsup girl jokingly and start chattin etc. Girls take me for a country boy btw so i play that up real hard. Im good at initial convo but after that i really kinda don't have much to say. How would yall go in for this bartender you are trying to bang?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Read through a bunch of stuff on here im talking hours of stuff and want to retain as much info as possible. Little about me got a good job im 5'10 well built good smile good sense of humor laidback. Im not a model but most woman will say im pretty handsome. For example there is thick chick who is a bartender at this local bar real cute. We've never "flirted but she kinda knows me etc etc. We've talked friendly before i really want to bang her as she is cute. How would i go about this? My style of flirting is im pretty ****y and ill walk up say something like whatsup girl jokingly and start chattin etc. Girls take me for a country boy btw so i play that up real hard. Im good at initial convo but after that i really kinda don't have much to say. How would yall go in for this bartender you are trying to bang?
If a girl is attracted to you based on initial impression it shouldn't take more than a minute or two of small chit chat before getting her phone number. I would go for the initial chit chat then say something like "i gotta run but would like to continue the conversation later .. what is your number?"

Then text her later with the date request.
 

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What if you know your going to be at yhe certain place for a while. She was my bartender afterall i wasnt going to walk in and ask for her number and walk out i ordered food etc.
 

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Go for what the f8ck you want. That's basically it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes. Come with friends, order a drink from her and when she hands it to you, tell her to give you her number (KEY POINT: don't ask for it, tell her to give it to you).

After you get it, tell her youll call her and walk back to your friends. Talk to her here and there all night, flirt, give her a good impression. Call her a few days later
 

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Yes. Come with friends, order a drink from her and when she hands it to you, tell her to give you her number (KEY POINT: don't ask for it, tell her to give it to you).

After you get it, tell her youll call her and walk back to your friends. Talk to her here and there all night, flirt, give her a good impression. Call her a few days later
This is so important. You are a man, you do not ask a woman for permission, there is no can I May I or let me have. Move fast and execute strong.
 

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bartender you are trying to bang
A bartender? OH G mate,bartenders IMHO are going to be hard to bang,they are basicly sick of men hitting on them(you might have a chance if you approached her elsewhere)
 

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Think is i cant walk back to my friends we are all going to be sitting right there at the bar. Haha. Telling her to give me her number isnt coming on to strong when i really havent flirted much at all yet?
 
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