"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to truly get woman?

Ryan Adams

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Read through a bunch of stuff on here im talking hours of stuff and want to retain as much info as possible. Little about me got a good job im 5'10 well built good smile good sense of humor laidback. Im not a model but most woman will say im pretty handsome. For example there is thick chick who is a bartender at this local bar real cute. We've never "flirted but she kinda knows me etc etc. We've talked friendly before i really want to bang her as she is cute. How would i go about this? My style of flirting is im pretty ****y and ill walk up say something like whatsup girl jokingly and start chattin etc. Girls take me for a country boy btw so i play that up real hard. Im good at initial convo but after that i really kinda don't have much to say. How would yall go in for this bartender you are trying to bang?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Read through a bunch of stuff on here im talking hours of stuff and want to retain as much info as possible. Little about me got a good job im 5'10 well built good smile good sense of humor laidback. Im not a model but most woman will say im pretty handsome. For example there is thick chick who is a bartender at this local bar real cute. We've never "flirted but she kinda knows me etc etc. We've talked friendly before i really want to bang her as she is cute. How would i go about this? My style of flirting is im pretty ****y and ill walk up say something like whatsup girl jokingly and start chattin etc. Girls take me for a country boy btw so i play that up real hard. Im good at initial convo but after that i really kinda don't have much to say. How would yall go in for this bartender you are trying to bang?
If a girl is attracted to you based on initial impression it shouldn't take more than a minute or two of small chit chat before getting her phone number. I would go for the initial chit chat then say something like "i gotta run but would like to continue the conversation later .. what is your number?"

Then text her later with the date request.
 

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What if you know your going to be at yhe certain place for a while. She was my bartender afterall i wasnt going to walk in and ask for her number and walk out i ordered food etc.
 

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Go for what the f8ck you want. That's basically it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yes. Come with friends, order a drink from her and when she hands it to you, tell her to give you her number (KEY POINT: don't ask for it, tell her to give it to you).

After you get it, tell her youll call her and walk back to your friends. Talk to her here and there all night, flirt, give her a good impression. Call her a few days later
 

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Yes. Come with friends, order a drink from her and when she hands it to you, tell her to give you her number (KEY POINT: don't ask for it, tell her to give it to you).

After you get it, tell her youll call her and walk back to your friends. Talk to her here and there all night, flirt, give her a good impression. Call her a few days later
This is so important. You are a man, you do not ask a woman for permission, there is no can I May I or let me have. Move fast and execute strong.
 

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bartender you are trying to bang
A bartender? OH G mate,bartenders IMHO are going to be hard to bang,they are basicly sick of men hitting on them(you might have a chance if you approached her elsewhere)
 

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Think is i cant walk back to my friends we are all going to be sitting right there at the bar. Haha. Telling her to give me her number isnt coming on to strong when i really havent flirted much at all yet?
 
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