Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
RangerMIke said:This...
I'm going to say this again so all need to read my words and accept the truth of this statement. NEVER... EVER believe ANYTHING ANY woman says about relationships.
There are only TWO reasons why a woman will leave a relationship. (1) She no longer loves him. (2) She can not control him.
After a woman breaks up with a guy she will say that he was "Mean to her", or "He wouldn't commit". She is never going to say "He wouldn't slip on the collar and let me lead him around like a dog." or "He no longer makes my pvssy wet."
"He cheated on me." is another excuse.... But the truth is that there are PLENTY relationships where a guy cheats on his girl and she stays with him. Women like it when their guy is attractive to other women... women who stay with a cheater will rationalize that it the other woman's fault. The only way a woman leaves a cheater, is if the cheating caused he some level of danger, or that the cheating is an indicator that she no longer controls him. A man that cheats on his wife and she stays with him anyway, SURRENDERS a great deal of power to her as a condition of he not leaving.
And don't forget that the principle reason a man cheats in the first place is because he is no longer getting what he wants from his partner. If she is making sex difficult, it is because she no longer finds him attractive and loves him. Of course she will take the opportunity to dump the cheater, but the fact is she was denying him sex and treating him like crap until the cheating happened.
Lolbigneil said:A sergent is absolutely Beta. He reports to staff sergeant, who reports to first sergent, who reports to sergent major, who reports to the General, who reports to the President, who reports to the Central bank, who reports to the shareholders, who report to the Board of Directors, who report to the Secret Government, who report to Satan.
Read this again!!!Suspens said:Leaving them would just make them happy that you finally got the hint and gave up.
*sexual market valueSpyr0 said:If your social market value (smv) is higher than hers and she knows it.. You can do what ever the hell you want to her.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
You are on to something Johnny.JohnyTheArrow said:You are wrong.Women love be treated like trash by alpha male - but any other male is not acceptable.You are beta trying to do things reserved for alpha - FAIL.