Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RangerMIke said:This...
I'm going to say this again so all need to read my words and accept the truth of this statement. NEVER... EVER believe ANYTHING ANY woman says about relationships.
There are only TWO reasons why a woman will leave a relationship. (1) She no longer loves him. (2) She can not control him.
After a woman breaks up with a guy she will say that he was "Mean to her", or "He wouldn't commit". She is never going to say "He wouldn't slip on the collar and let me lead him around like a dog." or "He no longer makes my pvssy wet."
"He cheated on me." is another excuse.... But the truth is that there are PLENTY relationships where a guy cheats on his girl and she stays with him. Women like it when their guy is attractive to other women... women who stay with a cheater will rationalize that it the other woman's fault. The only way a woman leaves a cheater, is if the cheating caused he some level of danger, or that the cheating is an indicator that she no longer controls him. A man that cheats on his wife and she stays with him anyway, SURRENDERS a great deal of power to her as a condition of he not leaving.
And don't forget that the principle reason a man cheats in the first place is because he is no longer getting what he wants from his partner. If she is making sex difficult, it is because she no longer finds him attractive and loves him. Of course she will take the opportunity to dump the cheater, but the fact is she was denying him sex and treating him like crap until the cheating happened.
Lolbigneil said:A sergent is absolutely Beta. He reports to staff sergeant, who reports to first sergent, who reports to sergent major, who reports to the General, who reports to the President, who reports to the Central bank, who reports to the shareholders, who report to the Board of Directors, who report to the Secret Government, who report to Satan.
Read this again!!!Suspens said:Leaving them would just make them happy that you finally got the hint and gave up.
*sexual market valueSpyr0 said:If your social market value (smv) is higher than hers and she knows it.. You can do what ever the hell you want to her.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You are on to something Johnny.JohnyTheArrow said:You are wrong.Women love be treated like trash by alpha male - but any other male is not acceptable.You are beta trying to do things reserved for alpha - FAIL.