"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to treat girlfriend of 3 1/2 months who has some aw in her..

shark

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Well, basically..my girlfriend is a bit of an AW. Probably somehwere between a fullout AW and a regular girl. Now, for H.S. is 3 1/2 months considered an LTR. How often should we talk on the phone? What ratio or about should I be calling her, she be calling me?

She usually calls me or messages me 70-80 percent..and SOMTIMES she'll complain so latly i've been calling her a few times per week instead of her calling me EVERY time or almost every time

Basically how to keep attraction and deal with this one..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AC/DC

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You're telling her she's not important by not calling her.

Solution: call her, and listen to her.
 
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