"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to treat girlfriend of 3 1/2 months who has some aw in her..

shark

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Well, basically..my girlfriend is a bit of an AW. Probably somehwere between a fullout AW and a regular girl. Now, for H.S. is 3 1/2 months considered an LTR. How often should we talk on the phone? What ratio or about should I be calling her, she be calling me?

She usually calls me or messages me 70-80 percent..and SOMTIMES she'll complain so latly i've been calling her a few times per week instead of her calling me EVERY time or almost every time

Basically how to keep attraction and deal with this one..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AC/DC

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You're telling her she's not important by not calling her.

Solution: call her, and listen to her.
 
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