"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to treat girlfriend of 3 1/2 months who has some aw in her..

shark

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Well, basically..my girlfriend is a bit of an AW. Probably somehwere between a fullout AW and a regular girl. Now, for H.S. is 3 1/2 months considered an LTR. How often should we talk on the phone? What ratio or about should I be calling her, she be calling me?

She usually calls me or messages me 70-80 percent..and SOMTIMES she'll complain so latly i've been calling her a few times per week instead of her calling me EVERY time or almost every time

Basically how to keep attraction and deal with this one..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AC/DC

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You're telling her she's not important by not calling her.

Solution: call her, and listen to her.
 
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