I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Exactly what he said.Crazy Asian said:
Exactly, focus on your mission. But dont forget to throw them a bone once in a while in the shape of a phone call, a text or a coffee meetup just to keep yourself in sight, in mind. Only burn bridges if its warranted.jdon23 said:Exactly what he said.
If you're confident about yourself, it will be shown and exuded throughout your person. You won't have to think about how to treat ANY woman; because deep down you don't care about the result.
Women come and go. Keep your options open by building attraction and remember.. NEVER intentionally burn bridges. You never know what could happen.