Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to transition from small talk to sex?

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Okay I'm sitting here talking about making small talk with bartenders. That's all well and good, but that's nobodies goal.

I'm sure everybody here has had relationship where you just have sex all the time. 10-20x/week. That would be the goal. But you can't outright say that to a stranger.

There is a big difference between what people want behind closed doors and how they act in public.

I don't get how to transition from the politeness of public conservation to the reality of what people like to do behind closed doors.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Talk about sexual topics to feel her out and if she reciprocates tell her she gets to go home with you
What are some sexual topics to bring up in public?

Keep in mind the standard conservation in public is "where are you from?" and small talk like this. If you're lucky, you might find out where they went to school or something like that.

For example, the conservation I had with the Hooters girl a few days ago. What could I have said that is sexual that could have steered it that way?
 

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If I had sex with the same girl 20 times in a week I’d probably want to throw her out the window

I think it’s important to ask the girl deep questions about herself. If she opens up to you about an emotional event in her life it’s over ......
 
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If I had sex with the same girl 20 times in a week I’d probably want to throw her out the window

I think it’s important to ask the girl deep questions about herself. If she opens up to you about an emotional event in her life it’s over ......
What are some deep questions?
 

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