"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to transition from small talk to sex?

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Okay I'm sitting here talking about making small talk with bartenders. That's all well and good, but that's nobodies goal.

I'm sure everybody here has had relationship where you just have sex all the time. 10-20x/week. That would be the goal. But you can't outright say that to a stranger.

There is a big difference between what people want behind closed doors and how they act in public.

I don't get how to transition from the politeness of public conservation to the reality of what people like to do behind closed doors.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Talk about sexual topics to feel her out and if she reciprocates tell her she gets to go home with you
What are some sexual topics to bring up in public?

Keep in mind the standard conservation in public is "where are you from?" and small talk like this. If you're lucky, you might find out where they went to school or something like that.

For example, the conservation I had with the Hooters girl a few days ago. What could I have said that is sexual that could have steered it that way?
 

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If I had sex with the same girl 20 times in a week I’d probably want to throw her out the window

I think it’s important to ask the girl deep questions about herself. If she opens up to you about an emotional event in her life it’s over ......
 
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If I had sex with the same girl 20 times in a week I’d probably want to throw her out the window

I think it’s important to ask the girl deep questions about herself. If she opens up to you about an emotional event in her life it’s over ......
What are some deep questions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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