"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to transition from small talk to sex?

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Okay I'm sitting here talking about making small talk with bartenders. That's all well and good, but that's nobodies goal.

I'm sure everybody here has had relationship where you just have sex all the time. 10-20x/week. That would be the goal. But you can't outright say that to a stranger.

There is a big difference between what people want behind closed doors and how they act in public.

I don't get how to transition from the politeness of public conservation to the reality of what people like to do behind closed doors.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Talk about sexual topics to feel her out and if she reciprocates tell her she gets to go home with you
What are some sexual topics to bring up in public?

Keep in mind the standard conservation in public is "where are you from?" and small talk like this. If you're lucky, you might find out where they went to school or something like that.

For example, the conservation I had with the Hooters girl a few days ago. What could I have said that is sexual that could have steered it that way?
 

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If I had sex with the same girl 20 times in a week I’d probably want to throw her out the window

I think it’s important to ask the girl deep questions about herself. If she opens up to you about an emotional event in her life it’s over ......
 
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If I had sex with the same girl 20 times in a week I’d probably want to throw her out the window

I think it’s important to ask the girl deep questions about herself. If she opens up to you about an emotional event in her life it’s over ......
What are some deep questions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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