"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to thrust my penis into a vagina....my first time

Questionitall

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At 38 I am still a virgin.

Getting ready for my first time......

any advice on thrusts?
How fast? How many thrusts in total per intercourse? How hard to thrust? Is figuring out the angle that my **** ought to thrust easy once I'm into her vagina?

Thanks for any advice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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At 38 I am still a virgin.

Getting ready for my first time......

any advice on thrusts?
How fast? How many thrusts in total per intercourse? How hard to thrust? Is figuring out the angle that my **** ought to thrust easy once I'm into her vagina?

Thanks for any advice.

Just enjoy.

But first, protect yourself. You dont wanna get a STD on your first time.

With practice you will learn how to do it. Just dont think too much... Just do it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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  1. Keep a pace that feels good.
  2. Don't count thrusts, repeat until climax.
  3. Not so hard that it hurts for either of you.
  4. Don't worry about the angle, keep it simple.
Don't overthink it. First couple of times will be clumsy no matter what, just get over with. You can work on being more advanced after that.
 

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@Baibars You are a tool for that laugh emoji, guy is bearing his soul, show some respect, this is why having a dad is so important.
Thanks!

You mention that having a dad is important.

Can I ask: did your dad take the time to specifically discuss the mechanics of sex/sexual intercourse with you?

I grew up with a mom and dad. Long story short: dad is a VERY insecure man who wanted me to remain a boy forever. He will not succeed in the long run, BUT unfortunately he has obviously had success with delaying my overall development (including sexual development).

My mom grew up in a dysfunctional broken home and groomed my dad to be her source of strength and stability. Since my dad actually very insecure it made for a bad situation.

Dad is almost normal when my mom is not around but when she is around he has to make his authority known (his insecurity and her needing her "stability").

Much of what went down in my home from my dad seemed to make no sense at the time. However if I put it into the context of his role as my mom's source of "stability" it makes perfect sense.

Being able to look down on me is their toxic partnership.

I have already gone through therapy with a psychiatrist and I am not rambling here as a cathartic process (simply giving information as a matter of fact).
 

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@Baibars You are a tool for that laugh emoji, guy is bearing his soul, show some respect, this is why having a dad is so important.
I don't believe that he is serious that's why i laughed. I don't believe that ANY man these days doesn't know how to fvck. I mean we are surrounded by stimuli and porn. If he'd ask for tips in bed i would understand that but i really can't believe he doesn't know how to thrust sorry :D

A monkey can thrust most animals do that out of instinct. If someone asks me how to breathe i would also laugh.
This must be trolling. And if it isn't, i didn't laugh about him i laughed about the fact that this question does not make any sense
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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@Baibars You are a tool for that laugh emoji, guy is bearing his soul, show some respect, this is why having a dad is so important.
You don't even know me :D Having a dad is important? Believe me i grew up with a conservative father who disciplined me my whole childhood. I have respect but if someone asks me '' hey how can i put my penis in a vagina?'' in 2020 I would just laugh. Nothing to do with respect
 

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Grip your tool with your fist, then slide the head down her slit. The vag is at the bottom of her slit. It won't go in until you hit that lowest point.

You don't set the "angle." It is what it is; your tool will self-adjust.

The pace is natural too. You don't have to think about it.

Seriously, you will have this figured out in a few minutes.
 

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Can I ask: did your dad take the time to specifically discuss the mechanics of sex/sexual intercourse with you?
Lol my dad told me son.. when I started dating your mom I had 6 other girlfriends.... until your ready to marry don’t ever settle for 1.

there was no sex talk... I around the age of 11 pornos started showing up in random places . I figured it out....
 

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I've enjoyed finishing inside a woman more than finishing anywhere else. Even if it is finishing inside a woman in a condom, it is still more satisfying to do than externally.
Oh really, so you mean to tell me that potentially millions of years of biological conditioning has resulted in you enjoying nutting inside? That is crazy yo, who would of thought?

Did you want to have a gab about the weather too?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Try different postitions...her on top,you on the bottom bunk
 

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At 38 I am still a virgin.

Getting ready for my first time......

any advice on thrusts?
How fast? How many thrusts in total per intercourse? How hard to thrust? Is figuring out the angle that my **** ought to thrust easy once I'm into her vagina?

Thanks for any advice.
Try to find a wet hole because if the hole is dry it might be hard to work yourself in.
 
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