How to threat a girl that just wants to be friends

[ericktorres68]

I mean i know its an excuse girls make but this girl really honestly wants to be friends with me knowing how i feel for her. She talks to me and everything and i like it because i thought sooner or later shel change her mind but WHEN SHE DECIDED TO TELL ME SHE HAD A NEW BF THAT PISSED ME OFF! Why would a girl that knows exactly how i feel for her tell me that? And she continues to messege me and everything should I jst ignore her messeges now?

 

[LearningSlowly]

I mean i know its an excuse girls make but this girl really honestly wants to be friends with me knowing how i feel for her. She talks to me and everything and i like it because i thought sooner or later shel change her mind but WHEN SHE DECIDED TO TELL ME SHE HAD A NEW BF THAT PISSED ME OFF! Why would a girl that knows exactly how i feel for her tell me that? And she continues to messege me and everything should I jst ignore her messeges now?

Obviously it's causing you pain. She either doesn't know or doesn't care that it's causing you pain. You could tell her that, but that's likely to cause more pain for everyone.

Yeah, just ignore her messages. Don't fuel the bad feelings.

 

[Mindgamez]

Don't worry, there are many other girls out there. I know everybody says the same thing, but it's probably the best solution. Move on to the next!

Once in friendzone it's hard to get out. I think that you'd waste too much energy trying to change. Also, being overly needy and obsessing on a girl that is taken can lead to hell.That's my opinion .

 

[konmai]

Keep her around in case she can hook you up with someone else. Other than that, just detach yourself from her. Don't respond to her messages all the time. Maybe drop her a line every other day or something like someone you don't care about but want to keep around just in case. But if you think you can't handle that, just cut her out of your life, man.

 

[eastcoast15]

I mean i know its an excuse girls make but this girl really honestly wants to be friends with me knowing how i feel for her. She talks to me and everything and i like it because i thought sooner or later shel change her mind but WHEN SHE DECIDED TO TELL ME SHE HAD A NEW BF THAT PISSED ME OFF! Why would a girl that knows exactly how i feel for her tell me that? And she continues to messege me and everything should I jst ignore her messeges now?

Its gonna hurt to hear this but shes just your friend. Unless you manned up earlier and told her how you felt then you might have had a shot. But at this point you're lost.

And where do you get the idea that her dumping her feelings on you is going to eventually lead to her changing her mind? Thats the biggest thing everyone preaches doesn't happen.

 

[AH909]

Use her to meet other girls. Im sorry bro but she just wants to be friends. You will get over her when you start talking to more girls. The friendzone happens to the best of us.

 

[Jack Wealthy]

What the ****? How did you think not going toward sex would lead to sex? Girls don't go towards sex often man. Some will come up to you and even less will say they want to **** you, but for most girls you talk too it's all about the emotional sexuality. Easiest ways to do that are touch and teasing. SEXUALLY.