"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to threat a girl that just wants to be friends

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I mean i know its an excuse girls make but this girl really honestly wants to be friends with me knowing how i feel for her. She talks to me and everything and i like it because i thought sooner or later shel change her mind but WHEN SHE DECIDED TO TELL ME SHE HAD A NEW BF THAT PISSED ME OFF! Why would a girl that knows exactly how i feel for her tell me that? And she continues to messege me and everything should I jst ignore her messeges now?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ericktorres68 said:
I mean i know its an excuse girls make but this girl really honestly wants to be friends with me knowing how i feel for her. She talks to me and everything and i like it because i thought sooner or later shel change her mind but WHEN SHE DECIDED TO TELL ME SHE HAD A NEW BF THAT PISSED ME OFF! Why would a girl that knows exactly how i feel for her tell me that? And she continues to messege me and everything should I jst ignore her messeges now?
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Obviously it's causing you pain. She either doesn't know or doesn't care that it's causing you pain. You could tell her that, but that's likely to cause more pain for everyone.

Yeah, just ignore her messages. Don't fuel the bad feelings.
 
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Don't worry, there are many other girls out there. I know everybody says the same thing, but it's probably the best solution. Move on to the next!

Once in friendzone it's hard to get out. I think that you'd waste too much energy trying to change. Also, being overly needy and obsessing on a girl that is taken can lead to hell.That's my opinion :p .
 
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Keep her around in case she can hook you up with someone else. Other than that, just detach yourself from her. Don't respond to her messages all the time. Maybe drop her a line every other day or something like someone you don't care about but want to keep around just in case. But if you think you can't handle that, just cut her out of your life, man.
 
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ericktorres68 said:
I mean i know its an excuse girls make but this girl really honestly wants to be friends with me knowing how i feel for her. She talks to me and everything and i like it because i thought sooner or later shel change her mind but WHEN SHE DECIDED TO TELL ME SHE HAD A NEW BF THAT PISSED ME OFF! Why would a girl that knows exactly how i feel for her tell me that? And she continues to messege me and everything should I jst ignore her messeges now?
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Its gonna hurt to hear this but shes just your friend. Unless you manned up earlier and told her how you felt then you might have had a shot. But at this point you're lost.

And where do you get the idea that her dumping her feelings on you is going to eventually lead to her changing her mind? Thats the biggest thing everyone preaches doesn't happen.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Use her to meet other girls. Im sorry bro but she just wants to be friends. You will get over her when you start talking to more girls. The friendzone happens to the best of us.
 
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What the ****? How did you think not going toward sex would lead to sex? Girls don't go towards sex often man. Some will come up to you and even less will say they want to **** you, but for most girls you talk too it's all about the emotional sexuality. Easiest ways to do that are touch and teasing. SEXUALLY.
 
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