How to test a girl's commitment level

[Reykhel]

So if you trained her by being responsive and giving a bunch of positive attention while she "acts cool", and you realize it's not emotionally balanced. All we can do is pull away, cut contact, blow them off a few times, dig into our passions more and hope they start to pursue us?

If they don't pursue you have to drop it...

What? I don't hope anything from anyone.

My style is to take the piss, banter and provoke. I especially like to provoke her as her reactions will reveal a lot about her; if she has a sense of humour or if she's a stuck up cow, hardcore femenism will come out if it's there.

Look, the average woman is a social media addict and loves to gossip. Her personality is not going to entertain me that much, so it's up to me to entertain me. If I'm having fun with her I'll see her again.

If it's not a benefit to me and not fun to me, then why bother. And I do expect her to feel the same way. If it's not a benefit and not fun, why should she bother.

I don't expect any women to treat me like a King from day one, but you'd expect them to buy into your frame as time progresses.

If they're not benefiting you, you should as a consequence (not as a game or a tactic) lose interest. The water ripples baby. If I'm genuinely no longer interested as a consequence of her no longer bring joy into my life (no longer win/win)....

......why the fvck would I then hope she persues me.

When I throw old shoes out it's because they've outlived their value. They no longer serve me.