"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BeyondCharm

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Drug & Alcohol abuse both tend to have consistent behavioral patterns that show up or "lack of showing up".

A few i've known from both my own use of alcohol and drugs as well as partners are:

- Lack of empathy or understanding for other peoples situations
- Flakyness
- Lying (such as telling you they will call you back and then not calling, telling you they'll be somewhere and not being there, etc)
- Fear (fear of being caught, found out, told what to do ie. authority)
- Inability to meet time commitments
- Random dissapearances sometimes days or weeks a time
- Denial
- Blaming others for all problems in life
- Frequent bathroom use or trips to the store or going to "such and such" a friends house during odd hours
- Problems with sleeping on a regular schedule
- Runny noses much too often
- Black / Red boogers from runny noses

These are just a few patters/signs that will usually repeat themselves over and over again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BeyondCharm said:
Drug & Alcohol abuse both tend to have consistent behavioral patterns that show up or "lack of showing up".

A few i've known from both my own use of alcohol and drugs as well as partners are:

- Lack of empathy or understanding for other peoples situations
- Flakyness
- Lying (such as telling you they will call you back and then not calling, telling you they'll be somewhere and not being there, etc)
- Fear (fear of being caught, found out, told what to do ie. authority)
- Inability to meet time commitments
- Random dissapearances sometimes days or weeks a time
- Denial
- Blaming others for all problems in life
- Frequent bathroom use or trips to the store or going to "such and such" a friends house during odd hours
- Problems with sleeping on a regular schedule
- Runny noses much too often
- Black / Red boogers from runny noses

These are just a few patters/signs that will usually repeat themselves over and over again.
75% of what you listed can be said about the avg flaky skank
 
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