Sup guys, I just started recently working at my my local gym. I've been working out there for two years (I'm 17 now). I know most of you would take this as being a PU oppurtunity galore but honestly most of the women there arent that good looking, are married or alot older then me (Past 40's range with some). I still say hi to the majority of the ones I find attractive and talk to them etc, etc. There is this one chick though who works there. And if you've seen anyone work in a gym you know theres not much to do. I was really bored so I thought shes pretty cute (around a 6/6.5) cute face, petite, small bum and small boobs so nothing special but cute little package. anyways i walk up to her and immediately i felt a really good buzz, strong eye contact and attraction. iasked her what would be some good things to do if im bored and it just flew from there. it seemed like i knew her for a while, i threw in some neg hits got instant rapport she was smiling i was she called me an ass and initiated some kino. We began talking about many things and she even complimented me saying i have a pretty face (I am good loooking and tall), and then ya she finished on that machine and ya said ill talk to you later. so i went over talked to some buddies at the gym and she was working right next to me so i sparked up convo with her again. this time the sparks werent as strong and she seemed a little aloof and in her own world. i didnt think much of it and she walked off to another machine after finishing her sets. come to today i see her again and not wanting to seem to desperate to talk to her i just kept myself occupied for a good 40-50 minutes. After I walked up to her again and sparks weren't as strong she seemed to aloof again. I was wondering maybe my initial excitement of attraction for her decreased. Also by the time I walked up to her she was already done the treadmill went upstairs. Heres where I made a movement where I'm thinking I don't wanna seem to into her but I really wanna bang her so I said screw it im gonna go talk to her again see whats up. This time she seemed to be attempting to make more convo with me but also not as excited as the first time, I eventually raised the question about getting together where she then asked for my cell phone and i gave her a pen and paper. She seems quite laid back and almost disinterested but not or maybe shes aloof but I can't tell if shes interested or not. She gave me her #? Willingly without asking for it. And she was receptive the first time we spoke, but in between she seems very...hard to read. If you guys had experience with something liek this or comments I'd be happy to hear.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How to tell if she is not interested?
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