Sup guys, I just started recently working at my my local gym. I've been working out there for two years (I'm 17 now). I know most of you would take this as being a PU oppurtunity galore but honestly most of the women there arent that good looking, are married or alot older then me (Past 40's range with some). I still say hi to the majority of the ones I find attractive and talk to them etc, etc. There is this one chick though who works there. And if you've seen anyone work in a gym you know theres not much to do. I was really bored so I thought shes pretty cute (around a 6/6.5) cute face, petite, small bum and small boobs so nothing special but cute little package. anyways i walk up to her and immediately i felt a really good buzz, strong eye contact and attraction. iasked her what would be some good things to do if im bored and it just flew from there. it seemed like i knew her for a while, i threw in some neg hits got instant rapport she was smiling i was she called me an ass and initiated some kino. We began talking about many things and she even complimented me saying i have a pretty face (I am good loooking and tall), and then ya she finished on that machine and ya said ill talk to you later. so i went over talked to some buddies at the gym and she was working right next to me so i sparked up convo with her again. this time the sparks werent as strong and she seemed a little aloof and in her own world. i didnt think much of it and she walked off to another machine after finishing her sets. come to today i see her again and not wanting to seem to desperate to talk to her i just kept myself occupied for a good 40-50 minutes. After I walked up to her again and sparks weren't as strong she seemed to aloof again. I was wondering maybe my initial excitement of attraction for her decreased. Also by the time I walked up to her she was already done the treadmill went upstairs. Heres where I made a movement where I'm thinking I don't wanna seem to into her but I really wanna bang her so I said screw it im gonna go talk to her again see whats up. This time she seemed to be attempting to make more convo with me but also not as excited as the first time, I eventually raised the question about getting together where she then asked for my cell phone and i gave her a pen and paper. She seems quite laid back and almost disinterested but not or maybe shes aloof but I can't tell if shes interested or not. She gave me her #? Willingly without asking for it. And she was receptive the first time we spoke, but in between she seems very...hard to read. If you guys had experience with something liek this or comments I'd be happy to hear.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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How to tell if she is not interested?
- Thread starter matygee
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Instinctive
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I think every guy has had girls blow hot and cold! She's into you, but just nervous. Remember that a 6/6.5 will not have the confidence of a 8/9 when you first meet her. When she feels comfortable around you, she'll initiate more. Never neg her body, and be ready to lead. Meet up with her for a drink, and take it from there!
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Interest level is hard to read at time, especially when girls "play hard to get" by appearing disinterested. I usually focus on deceptive tactics women use to falsify interest. If her body is close to mines and I dig her then that's cool.
Hitman10000
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Instead of obeying the DJ Bible or listening to other DJs who give you the wrong advice for the wrong type of girls, gauge how the girl really is. Some girls will enjoy banter/neghits (these type of girls are usually wreckless IMHO) , and some girls will prefer you deal with them directly and be patient with them (these type of girls are not usually wreckless but are usually more home-bound types.) Even the advice I give you isn't clearcut when dealing with a specific girl. I recommend that you deal with this girl in a frank and honest manner. The good part of this is you don't have to be all funny and telling jokes to no end, but the bad part is that you have to be a good listener.matygee said:she is decent looking man like dont get me wrong she wants to be a newsreporter for television so she has some looks. but she dosent really dig the negs she says thanks but she dont really laugh to them
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Maty, move on, forget her, sorry bro, she isn't interested, don't sweat it.
Also you mentioned being bored, don't do that, fvcking busy yourself man, I haven't been bored in years, not when I am on my time for damn sure. Sorry if this seems harsh, it is just the truth. I don't have much time to elaborate so trust me as one who has been there...... Wait, I thought she asked for your #, she gave you hers? I read your post wrong if this is the case, tell more.
Also you mentioned being bored, don't do that, fvcking busy yourself man, I haven't been bored in years, not when I am on my time for damn sure. Sorry if this seems harsh, it is just the truth. I don't have much time to elaborate so trust me as one who has been there...... Wait, I thought she asked for your #, she gave you hers? I read your post wrong if this is the case, tell more.