"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how to tell her not to get a haircut without being a ****

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jeff_reigert

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when i'm single things are smooth sailing, i deal with things as they come, but now i'm starting to settle down a little bit and running into weird issues like this. she told me getting a "killer haircut" is on her list of things to do in a text message recently. i think she looks really sexy with long hair and don't think a short cut would be that great on her, but i can't come out and say that... how do i turn it into a compliment and not look like a jerkoff?

thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah just let her know upfront you find her most attractive with long hair.

Women have to abide by the 6 words of Leykis if they want to keep an alpha male in their life.

1. Long

2. Hair

3. Stay

4. Thin

5. Shut

6. Up

Simple. :up:

If she gets her hair cut to a nasty short length its perfectly alright for you to leave her if that looks fugly to you.

No sense in staying with a woman who you can't get it up for due to her fvcking up her looks.

Yeah it seems trivial to leave if she fvcks her looks up but little things are important and when a chick can get away with one little thing she'll just keep pressing the envelope until you've got a fat bald b!tch on your hands.
 
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If its been a long LTR....

just tell her she looks great with long hair. Its not AFC to compliment a girl in an LTR.
 
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just say no keep it you look hot with long hair....dunno why you couldnt say that lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just tell her... My girlfriend was talking about dying her hair. I was like keep it blonde or dirty blonde, and she did.
 
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