"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how to tell her not to get a haircut without being a ****

jeff_reigert

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when i'm single things are smooth sailing, i deal with things as they come, but now i'm starting to settle down a little bit and running into weird issues like this. she told me getting a "killer haircut" is on her list of things to do in a text message recently. i think she looks really sexy with long hair and don't think a short cut would be that great on her, but i can't come out and say that... how do i turn it into a compliment and not look like a jerkoff?

thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DarthNihilus

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Yeah just let her know upfront you find her most attractive with long hair.

Women have to abide by the 6 words of Leykis if they want to keep an alpha male in their life.

1. Long

2. Hair

3. Stay

4. Thin

5. Shut

6. Up

Simple. :up:

If she gets her hair cut to a nasty short length its perfectly alright for you to leave her if that looks fugly to you.

No sense in staying with a woman who you can't get it up for due to her fvcking up her looks.

Yeah it seems trivial to leave if she fvcks her looks up but little things are important and when a chick can get away with one little thing she'll just keep pressing the envelope until you've got a fat bald b!tch on your hands.
 

Ice882

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If its been a long LTR....

just tell her she looks great with long hair. Its not AFC to compliment a girl in an LTR.
 

Soprano

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just say no keep it you look hot with long hair....dunno why you couldnt say that lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Paintballguy

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Just tell her... My girlfriend was talking about dying her hair. I was like keep it blonde or dirty blonde, and she did.
 
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