"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to take control of my own frame with provocation

Novice1

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I got this girl-friend who had given me condoms twice this month. she gives it during school with her friend, i also shared my threesome adventure during a hike and now she asks me to join her jog but i insisted that we hike since she wants me to be in her jog spot. later that texts i asked her a rubber with a provocation that i can sense that she's giving me signs. now im in the waiting game
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The **** are you talking about?

Frame in context basically means maintaining your own interpretation and not getting thrown off by people's reactions. If her passing you condoms really bothers you, then stop letting her actions dictate your state of mind and simply decide what you want to do about it instead of letting it send you into an analysis spiral.
 

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I got this girl-friend who had given me condoms twice this month. she gives it during school with her friend, i also shared my threesome adventure during a hike and now she asks me to join her jog but i insisted that we hike since she wants me to be in her jog spot. later that texts i asked her a rubber with a provocation that i can sense that she's giving me signs. now im in the waiting game
Hey @Novice1 is it safe to assume English is not your native language?

By saying you "got this girl friend," do you mean "female friend" versus girlfriend like in a romantic relationship?

And what you're trying to determine is if you're reading her signals correctly and she's into you and wants to have sex with you?

You threw the idea out there hoping to provoke a response, the ball is in her court and as such you're now playing the waiting game?

Can you clarify?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Novice1

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The **** are you talking about?

Frame in context basically means maintaining your own interpretation and not getting thrown off by people's reactions. If her passing you condoms really bothers you, then stop letting her actions dictate your state of mind and simply decide what you want to do about it instead of letting it send you into an analysis spiral.
Will ignore her nonsense, im taking my swimming technique seriously
 
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