How to sustain an LTR

[Capt. America]

​

I have been dating this amazing girl who is funny, caring, and pretty. This is the best sex that I ever had and nothing we want to do is off limits. She gets along very well with my family and friends as do I with hers. There is only one nagging thing that she disclosed to me recently. She told me she was molested once when she was younger (7 years old) and that the person was never captured.

I want to make her my long-term girlfriend and possibly more, she means a lot to me. Do you have any tips, strategy, or resources I could utilize to best handle this situation? Thanks for your help.

 

[Iceberg]

So let me get this straight...the other TWO times you started the exact same thread, you didn't get the responses you want, so you find it necessary to start a third?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=171674

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=171673

What new info do you want people to share with you that wasn't shared the other times you started this topic?

 

[Capt. America]

Nah, no one responded because I did not give enough details about where I wanted my relationship with her to go. Plus this is my 1st time using the forum and I am unfamiliar with its functions

 

[Iceberg]

Nah, no one responded because I did not give enough details about where I wanted my relationship with her to go. Plus this is my 1st time using the forum and I am unfamiliar with its functions

What kind of advice do you want?

Seems like you get along with this girl just fine. I don't see why some tragic event that happened when she was 7 should change how you interact with her. That doesn't even make sense.

Okay, she was molested when she was 7. That's terrible. But here we are today, and she seems to get along with you just fine. So, how does that factor into anything?

Continue enjoying your time together. Continue being a challenge...no matter how "in love" you are, your woman does not want you to become boring and predictable. In summary: be a man.

I don't see how this molestation thing relates to anything. Just kinda comes out of left field.

 

[BeyondCharm]

I agree with the above poster, just don't make a big deal out of it and continue enjoying your time together. Focus on fun, interesting, exciting times together.