“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to subtly let girls know you've interesting hobbies

Nikar

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Hi guys,

How do you guys let girls know that you've interesting exciting hobbies / life and not just a boring average guy? Like, how do you insert those topics into the convo naturally without sounding like a show-off? Tips?

I realized that humans being humans, we tend to be more judgmental, like if a guy looks like a certain type, they'll assume he's the average joe, boring nerd etc, nothing much to be done about face / looks unless one goes for plastic surgery, but no thanks.
(gym only goes so far as to change your body, not the face etc.)

Like say, if you're into dancing and sky-diving, is there a way to "show it off" to girls subtly? I realized that this can lead to many things, like the girl joining you on your hobby outings etc. Many possibilities LOL

Also, I wonder if dressing in more flashy clothes will send the vibe that you're a flamboyant interesting type of guy rather than the boring nerd.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

jurry

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Dressing flashy and telling people how interesting you are is about as desperate and AFC as you can be. It signals to people that you are trying to compensate your low self image by always reminding them of how cool you are.

Be original, be yourself. If you have genuine hobbies then go do them and maybe you'll meet girls incidentally. You should just be doing your thing and if the girl wants to join then cool, if not fvck em theres a million more.
 

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Tell funny stories that involve your hobbies. Make 'em up if you have to. B!tches love funny stories.
 

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Women will instantly smell fake "interesting hobbies" and label you as trying-too-hard-AFC. But that's not the message. The message is: Don't do things to impress chics. Do things that YOU love, that you are passionate about. This will both improve your quality of life and give you stuff to talk about.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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