"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to subtly let girls know you've interesting hobbies

Nikar

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Hi guys,

How do you guys let girls know that you've interesting exciting hobbies / life and not just a boring average guy? Like, how do you insert those topics into the convo naturally without sounding like a show-off? Tips?

I realized that humans being humans, we tend to be more judgmental, like if a guy looks like a certain type, they'll assume he's the average joe, boring nerd etc, nothing much to be done about face / looks unless one goes for plastic surgery, but no thanks.
(gym only goes so far as to change your body, not the face etc.)

Like say, if you're into dancing and sky-diving, is there a way to "show it off" to girls subtly? I realized that this can lead to many things, like the girl joining you on your hobby outings etc. Many possibilities LOL

Also, I wonder if dressing in more flashy clothes will send the vibe that you're a flamboyant interesting type of guy rather than the boring nerd.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jurry

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Dressing flashy and telling people how interesting you are is about as desperate and AFC as you can be. It signals to people that you are trying to compensate your low self image by always reminding them of how cool you are.

Be original, be yourself. If you have genuine hobbies then go do them and maybe you'll meet girls incidentally. You should just be doing your thing and if the girl wants to join then cool, if not fvck em theres a million more.
 

MOTU

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Tell funny stories that involve your hobbies. Make 'em up if you have to. B!tches love funny stories.
 

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Women will instantly smell fake "interesting hobbies" and label you as trying-too-hard-AFC. But that's not the message. The message is: Don't do things to impress chics. Do things that YOU love, that you are passionate about. This will both improve your quality of life and give you stuff to talk about.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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