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How to subtly let girls know you've interesting hobbies

Nikar

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Hi guys,

How do you guys let girls know that you've interesting exciting hobbies / life and not just a boring average guy? Like, how do you insert those topics into the convo naturally without sounding like a show-off? Tips?

I realized that humans being humans, we tend to be more judgmental, like if a guy looks like a certain type, they'll assume he's the average joe, boring nerd etc, nothing much to be done about face / looks unless one goes for plastic surgery, but no thanks.
(gym only goes so far as to change your body, not the face etc.)

Like say, if you're into dancing and sky-diving, is there a way to "show it off" to girls subtly? I realized that this can lead to many things, like the girl joining you on your hobby outings etc. Many possibilities LOL

Also, I wonder if dressing in more flashy clothes will send the vibe that you're a flamboyant interesting type of guy rather than the boring nerd.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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jurry

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Dressing flashy and telling people how interesting you are is about as desperate and AFC as you can be. It signals to people that you are trying to compensate your low self image by always reminding them of how cool you are.

Be original, be yourself. If you have genuine hobbies then go do them and maybe you'll meet girls incidentally. You should just be doing your thing and if the girl wants to join then cool, if not fvck em theres a million more.
 

MOTU

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Tell funny stories that involve your hobbies. Make 'em up if you have to. B!tches love funny stories.
 

Moroder

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Women will instantly smell fake "interesting hobbies" and label you as trying-too-hard-AFC. But that's not the message. The message is: Don't do things to impress chics. Do things that YOU love, that you are passionate about. This will both improve your quality of life and give you stuff to talk about.
 
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