spider_007
Master Don Juan
I hit the replay button instead of forward and wrote something "uprofesional".......anyway to stop the email (i'm using outlook)
PLESEEE HELP!!!!!
PLESEEE HELP!!!!!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
how to stop sent email. help FAST!!!!!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
i know there is a way, because i remember once hearing an intro on local tv station about it....but i changed the channel before i found out how.....
spider_007
Master Don Juan
Recall or replace a message you've already sent
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This feature requires you to be using a Microsoft Exchange Server e-mail account.
You can recall or replace a message only if its recipient is logged on and using Microsoft Outlook and has not read the message or moved it from their Inbox.
In Mail, in the Navigation Pane (Navigation Pane: The column on the left side of the Outlook window that includes panes such as Shortcuts or Mail and the shortcuts or folders within each pane. Click a folder to show the items in the folder.), click Sent Items.
Open the message you want to recall or replace.
In the message window, on the Actions menu, click Recall This Message.
Note This command does not appear unless you are using an Exchange e-mail account.
Do one of the following:
Recall the message
Click Delete unread copies of this message.
To be notified about the success of the recall or replacement for each recipient, select the Tell me if recall succeeds or fails for each recipient check box.
Replace the message
Click Delete unread copies and replace with a new message.
To be notified about the success of the recall or replacement for each recipient, select the Tell me if recall succeeds or fails for each recipient check box.
Click OK, and then type a new message.
Note To replace a message, you must send a new one. If you do not send the new item (item: An item is the basic element that holds information in Outlook (similar to a file in other programs). Items include e-mail messages, appointments, contacts, tasks, journal entries, notes, posted items, and documents.), the original message is still recalled.
lets just hope he hasn't read it already.
Show All
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This feature requires you to be using a Microsoft Exchange Server e-mail account.
You can recall or replace a message only if its recipient is logged on and using Microsoft Outlook and has not read the message or moved it from their Inbox.
In Mail, in the Navigation Pane (Navigation Pane: The column on the left side of the Outlook window that includes panes such as Shortcuts or Mail and the shortcuts or folders within each pane. Click a folder to show the items in the folder.), click Sent Items.
Open the message you want to recall or replace.
In the message window, on the Actions menu, click Recall This Message.
Note This command does not appear unless you are using an Exchange e-mail account.
Do one of the following:
Recall the message
Click Delete unread copies of this message.
To be notified about the success of the recall or replacement for each recipient, select the Tell me if recall succeeds or fails for each recipient check box.
Replace the message
Click Delete unread copies and replace with a new message.
To be notified about the success of the recall or replacement for each recipient, select the Tell me if recall succeeds or fails for each recipient check box.
Click OK, and then type a new message.
Note To replace a message, you must send a new one. If you do not send the new item (item: An item is the basic element that holds information in Outlook (similar to a file in other programs). Items include e-mail messages, appointments, contacts, tasks, journal entries, notes, posted items, and documents.), the original message is still recalled.
lets just hope he hasn't read it already.
You could send about 5-10 emails with the exact same subject line, but different content. There's a possibility he might think you've sent the same message multiple times and just read the top one or two and delete the rest (including the dodgy one) without reading them.
I am curious now...what was this mail?
I am curious now...what was this mail?
spider_007
Master Don Juan
I got asked to come to an "user meeting" for this company that provides "drafting software" for us.....after the meeting there is going to be a lunch provided. Well instead of hitting "forward", i hit "reply"...Jariel said:
and wrote; "free lunch????". what i ment to do is forward it to my boss, and try and convince him to send me (which is why i wrote "free lunch???". as in, can i go???)...
so now i look like an idiot in front of the software dealer, and he'll be thinking that i'm just in for a free lunch.
arrrrr, so embarasing!!!!!!!
i'll be even worse when i see him (it's this wednesday)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"Free lunch?"
Dude...don't sweat it. Embarrassing? Sure. Nothing to die about.
I heard that once a sent email has been read...you won't be able to retrieve it.
If you send that email (as a forward or reply) then my understanding is that you won't be able to retrieve it either, because you are not the original sender (I tried to retrieve one as a reply to my girlfriend the other day and it was impossible).
But I'm not sure. All I can say is...hey, "embarrassing"...but not career ending. Don't sweat it. You win nothing with it.
Dude...don't sweat it. Embarrassing? Sure. Nothing to die about.
I heard that once a sent email has been read...you won't be able to retrieve it.
If you send that email (as a forward or reply) then my understanding is that you won't be able to retrieve it either, because you are not the original sender (I tried to retrieve one as a reply to my girlfriend the other day and it was impossible).
But I'm not sure. All I can say is...hey, "embarrassing"...but not career ending. Don't sweat it. You win nothing with it.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Jeez, don't sweat "Free Lunch???". In fact, I do that sort of thing all the time. You are a customer of theirs, and they know the "game". They will probably get a good laugh, maybe even reply with a "Yep, come on down." It's like a C&F thing.
Go ahead and be unprofessional in this day and age. When my vendors come in and ask me to attend their seminars and conferences I ask them:
V: "Are there going to be a bunch of hot chicks there?"
vendor: "HAHAH! I don't know."
V: "Well then... Hmmm... I donno..."
vendor: "There's going to be free lunch, though."
Bottom line: Don't sweat it. What are they going to do? Fire you? Jobs are like women: there are buh-zillions of them and they don't always last.
Go ahead and be unprofessional in this day and age. When my vendors come in and ask me to attend their seminars and conferences I ask them:
V: "Are there going to be a bunch of hot chicks there?"
vendor: "HAHAH! I don't know."
V: "Well then... Hmmm... I donno..."
vendor: "There's going to be free lunch, though."
Bottom line: Don't sweat it. What are they going to do? Fire you? Jobs are like women: there are buh-zillions of them and they don't always last.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
well i got his responce today, and i guess it wasn't as bad i thought....
"free lunch????"
"LOL! But of course!
Hope to see you there.
Thanks,
Paul "
"free lunch????"
"LOL! But of course!
Hope to see you there.
Thanks,
Paul "
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
All the vendor cares about is selling software. No worries.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
that's the problem bud; "You thought"RedRose said:What an INSECURE CHUMP!
You are afraid of "Free Lunch???" :nono:
And I thought you were good...