"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to stop liking a girl without doing NO CONTACT

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Hey fellas...i was wondering if any one could please render me some help on how to stop liking a girl that I see on a constant basis and in which the NO CONTACT rule cannot be used as I see her everyday..thanks in advance
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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just because you see her everyday doesn't mean you have to talk to her or acknowledge her existence. don't look at her when you see her, if she says "hey" say it back but keep walking by or doing whatever it is you're doing.
 
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Thanks for the reply but I was just wondering how else I can do that apart from ignoring her as we both work with a group of others on simila projects daily. Pleease advice greatly needed.tnx
 
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Am in a similar situation, posted once an issue with this workmate. I'm the engineer, and she's the architect. Have to see her every 2 weeks on a constant basis, for at least 5 years. Really sucks. Kailex or the rest of the other posters would tell you NEVER even have thoughts with someone you work with.

I learned it the hard way, and still am. I paid the price, now its ugly. So if you want something else than just ignoring her, how bout keep things real professional. Set in mind PROFESSIONALISM comes first and like Robert28 says, keep things short. Trust me, you don't want to get involved with a person from work. Nowadays, i just tell her what she wants in regards to the project and that's that.
 
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I actually think that no contact causes you to like her more. Because you have more time to think about her when she's not around, thus build up a more perfect girl in your head. But if you do contact you're able to see what her flaws are and like her less. Whatever you do, DON'T look at her facebook or myspace profile EVER. That'll definitely make it worse.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Focus more of your energies on other women. Start macking on every mildly attractive woman you encounter. Pretty soon, you'll have some promising projects. When you have other women in your life, that girl becomes irrelevant regardless of whether you see her on not.
 
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Lexington said:
Focus more of your energies on other women. Start macking on every mildly attractive woman you encounter. Pretty soon, you'll have some promising projects. When you have other women in your life, that girl becomes irrelevant regardless of whether you see her on not.
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thats the one, get those plates a spinnin...then you won't care.
 
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