"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to stop liking a girl without doing NO CONTACT

sunkist

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Hey fellas...i was wondering if any one could please render me some help on how to stop liking a girl that I see on a constant basis and in which the NO CONTACT rule cannot be used as I see her everyday..thanks in advance
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Robert28

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just because you see her everyday doesn't mean you have to talk to her or acknowledge her existence. don't look at her when you see her, if she says "hey" say it back but keep walking by or doing whatever it is you're doing.
 

sunkist

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Thanks for the reply but I was just wondering how else I can do that apart from ignoring her as we both work with a group of others on simila projects daily. Pleease advice greatly needed.tnx
 

cykeson

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Am in a similar situation, posted once an issue with this workmate. I'm the engineer, and she's the architect. Have to see her every 2 weeks on a constant basis, for at least 5 years. Really sucks. Kailex or the rest of the other posters would tell you NEVER even have thoughts with someone you work with.

I learned it the hard way, and still am. I paid the price, now its ugly. So if you want something else than just ignoring her, how bout keep things real professional. Set in mind PROFESSIONALISM comes first and like Robert28 says, keep things short. Trust me, you don't want to get involved with a person from work. Nowadays, i just tell her what she wants in regards to the project and that's that.
 

Demystify

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I actually think that no contact causes you to like her more. Because you have more time to think about her when she's not around, thus build up a more perfect girl in your head. But if you do contact you're able to see what her flaws are and like her less. Whatever you do, DON'T look at her facebook or myspace profile EVER. That'll definitely make it worse.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Lexington

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Focus more of your energies on other women. Start macking on every mildly attractive woman you encounter. Pretty soon, you'll have some promising projects. When you have other women in your life, that girl becomes irrelevant regardless of whether you see her on not.
 

scorpio1138

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Lexington said:
Focus more of your energies on other women. Start macking on every mildly attractive woman you encounter. Pretty soon, you'll have some promising projects. When you have other women in your life, that girl becomes irrelevant regardless of whether you see her on not.

thats the one, get those plates a spinnin...then you won't care.
 
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