Hey, how do you stop/hook a woman in who is walking? I was at a retail store when I saw an attractive Asian girl in line. If I had opened her right there, that would've been direct opening in front of a lot of people(she was in line at the register), and there could've been consequences to it, since I'm from a small town. So, I just waited until she got outside and then I approached her with "Hey, I thought you were cute and I wanted to talk with you for a second". She smiled and talked a little to me on the way to her car, but she didn't stop for me. So, should I have followed her to her car instead of just talking to her as she was moving away from me or what? These situations confuse me because I don't know what to do to demonstrate that I'm not needy or desperate. Because I want to do enough to keep her hooked, but not too much.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How to stop/hook women who are walking?
- Thread starter Deicide
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
Just say whatever the fck you wanna say bro.
Try this:
Approach her as she's walking. Then STOP walking and open. She will feel inclined to stop and talk to you.
So for instance, you could go up to her, then stop and say, "Excuse me," and then go into your opener. People will follow as you do.
Approach her as she's walking. Then STOP walking and open. She will feel inclined to stop and talk to you.
So for instance, you could go up to her, then stop and say, "Excuse me," and then go into your opener. People will follow as you do.
Masculinity
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I have a good one, but it requires a good set of b@lls.
Simply say "hi!" and give her a smirk and stop. If she just smiles and keeps walking, then say "Oh, c'mon, are my good looks really THAT intimidating? (smile)." I'm looking forward to hearing the good results you get!
Simply say "hi!" and give her a smirk and stop. If she just smiles and keeps walking, then say "Oh, c'mon, are my good looks really THAT intimidating? (smile)." I'm looking forward to hearing the good results you get!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Amw406
Don Juan
When you see a girl approaching. Pull out your phone. Make it look like your texting. then as she walks by say, "Hey, my friend and I were having a discussion,and I think we need a female opinion. His girl friend wants a manaj a twa. Do you think that will help their relationship or hurt it? Oh, did I mention his girlfriend is a stripper?
Heard that on the internet somewhere. Opening with, "I need a female opinion on something," usually will take them off their guard long enough to start a conversation. Try make it looking like your talking to them because they are there. Not like it was premeditated.
Heard that on the internet somewhere. Opening with, "I need a female opinion on something," usually will take them off their guard long enough to start a conversation. Try make it looking like your talking to them because they are there. Not like it was premeditated.
thevilittletroll
Senior Don Juan
girls on the move is a tough one to open and hook. it just does not have a very high success rate, not my cup of tea. one thing that you cannot do is follow after them. it does not show high value. you can run your game but it will turn into a creepy vibe cause you are following. it shows needyness and desperation which is low value. so even if you do get their number they will flake.
post up somewhere where you know they will walk by you, just yell out your opener when they walk by. ex: hey! real quick!....usually some hesitation....real quick! do not come down from your post. just recite your opener loud enough for them to hear you, let them come to you. if it hooks it is a solid IOI. proceed from there.
post up somewhere where you know they will walk by you, just yell out your opener when they walk by. ex: hey! real quick!....usually some hesitation....real quick! do not come down from your post. just recite your opener loud enough for them to hear you, let them come to you. if it hooks it is a solid IOI. proceed from there.
loveshogun
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Were they gonna lynch you? Seriously, what consequences? The police gonna roll up and re-enact the Rodney King arrest?Deicide said:
Worst case scenario is that you'd be considered a d*ck for about 30 seconds for talking instead of keeping the line moving.
I will admit that standing in a line, it's can probably come off as a little creepy to just start with "Hi, my name is ____."
Easy fix: look at some of the stuff she's holding and comment on it. Then say "Hi, my name is ____."
Not that difficult, brotha. Opening is easy. Closing is where it gets trickier. Ask us about closing.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Buy a megaphone and keep on raising the volume to max until you get her attention while following her. Think of the most AFC love song then start singing it out loud how she is your sweetheart. Try a song like "Never going to let you go".
Haha, I've always been paranoid about getting kicked out of stores or public places for doing pick-up. I guess it's just negative social conditioning from my youth, because I never got in trouble for anything then. lol Yes, I'm interested in learning how to open up girls waiting in line or other busy places. And I'm trying to go direct and do more ballsy approaches, because some of those insecure indirect cold approaches I did in the past didn't do anything.loveshogun said:
At AMW and Robyn: Thanks for the advice. When college starts back I'll be doing a lot of day game cold approaches on unsuspecting HB's. I'm just trying to train myself mentally to go for direct approaches.