"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright,
so this girl that I was friendzoned with called and asked "so when is your break, do you want to go out?" after I backed off for a bit. Before it was me doing all the pursuing. So my question is NOW, how do I go and not be friendzoned again by this girl?

Need advice ASAP. I know your thinking whoopty ****ing do another one-its, but I walked away from this one and it's someone I can walk away from again easily...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Too easy. Walk away or take the chance. You won't be re-LJBFed if you present attractive qualities that she finds attractive, that's the only way.
 
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She isn't calling you for non-friendzone stuff.
 
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I don't think she's calling you because she doesn't think you're a friend anymore

but I'd say call her off a few times and increase the kino, that might help.
 
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"She isn't calling you for non-friendzone stuff."

Yeah I can see that also, but what I do know is that her interest increasing after I ignored her for a few weeks. What do you suggest I do, not go out with her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DTB?? Are you kidding? You gotta give it a shot - What do you have to lose?

You need to work on being a challenge. I suggest getting a copy of Doc Love's Dating Dictionary. He talks about how to be a challenge.

If you noticed she came back at you when you backed off. You were unintentionally being a challenge, & you made her the pursuer.
 
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take her out, be a challanging, tease her , get her drunk, and game is over..


good luck
 
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Thanks for the advice boys
K here is a little update
I have been in communication with my ex and right now its looking like we might get back together... buttt she dumped me before
for this girl that friendzoned me before...Im going to take her out but I am going to ask her if she is interested in going on a date (key word date). I never asked her out before that is one reason why I might have gotten friendzoned. I have an urge to tell her the truth that I have been in contact with my ex and I am interested in her and wanted to see if she wanted to go out.
What do you think??:up:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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