How to stop being an A-hole???

[escobar04]

guys, I need some help, dont like asking but I'm just a bit confused

ok, I'm pretty good-looking, even the ranking score on Myspace says I'm an 8.1, wealthy, nice body etc.

I'm naturally what you would say ****y and funny but I seem to take it too far.

I think my problem is that I have zero respect for girls.

I was on a date last Sat. and the chick told me that I'm sorta perfect and stuff but I cant treat a lady right

I do notice that my "jokes" are waaay too far for girls to handle as if I make them feel really bad about themselves in a jerky manner. they're still jokes, I'm not some serious-look-on-my-face-typa-dude but girls just get intimidated or something

I definately stretch the term ****y.

the question is-how do I stop all this, I dont wanna become a nice guy or nothing but I need to know if there's a level of just being a normal man, or will I always be an arrogant a$$hole????

 

[DJnoob]

i would like to hear your jokes. Can you give examples of the things you said

 

[JonJack]

Originally posted by escobar04
the question is-how do I stop all this, I dont wanna become a nice guy or nothing but I need to know if there's a level of just being a normal man, or will I always be an arrogant a$$hole????

Well then, what do you want to become? You want to be normal, but normal in whose eyes? If your character is seriously a problem, then a change might be good. But if you're trying to change without even understanding the reasons for doing it, then I wonder what's the motivation behind your desire to change.

Do you really believe that your character is flawed in some way and it is making you unhappy? Or do you just want to get laid a lot easier?