Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

How To Stimulate The Conversation

ALPHAROMEO

Banned
Joined
May 13, 2009
Messages
655
Reaction score
6
Location
france
just latch on one word of what she s saying

she might say " it s raining hard but it good for the plants
she useS the word PLANTS so u ask her
" do you have a big garden then ?

DO YOU GROW VEGGIES THERE ?

YOU single out one word and you flesh out a convo with THAT word !!!

it s called CHERRY PÏCKING or finding the cherry

as a language teacher i used to use a similar technique to stimulate the conversation with my students i d write A word on one piece of paper i d screw up the piece into a little ball , i d make quite a few balls like this !! then i d ask the student to pick a ball , we d get the word FLOWER for instance and i d ask him Qs around the word FLOWER

WHAT S YOUR FAVORITE FLOWER ?
I HAD A GF CALLED " FLOWER " do u think it s a cute name ?
BLA BLA
do u think you should buy a woman flowers for her birthday ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Top