"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to step up the game/women question?

mccj

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I'm going to be quite frank with you, and I don't want to sound like a jackass.

I am a universally liked guy. People know me as bright, funny, intelligent, and a pleasure to be around. I was elected the vice-president of my high school (and at my school, the government isn't really a nerdy thing to be a part of), by almost 85 percent of the vote. Around campus, I'm the man. There is no doubt in my mind that people universally love and respect me.

However much girls like to chat with me, or spend time with me, I feel that they don't really have much further interest in me. It might stem from the fact that while I'm of a normal height (about 5'11), I'm pretty thin for that height. I'm not an unattractive guy at all I don't think, but among 16-17 year olds, what are women honestly expecting?

I think it was a confidence factor for a few years there, but now I can pull of a conversation with anyone. It has greatly improved. What are the tactics to being that really attractive guy?

I feel like High School is kind of a lost cause, and am hoping to just develop some good habits so that when I have a fresh slate for college, I can step up the game. If it works out now, that's cool too.

Best,
Jack
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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War Against Betaism

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One of the first things people learn here is that when you're talking with a woman, you have a limited amount of time for them to determine whether you're either a "friend" or "partner". If you're interested in a woman, you have to pursue. Make it obvious but not too obvious that you are interested in her. In high school and the early years of college, a lot more pursuing is done whereas when you get older like in your 30's, you just have to not make mistakes.
 

nicelife

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read up on the bible and go to parties and meet chicks man, dont give up on high school girls ;D

it shouldnt be too hard for you if you've already got a rep, you just gotta show that your interested like the above poster said
 
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