"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to step up the game/women question?

mccj

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I'm going to be quite frank with you, and I don't want to sound like a jackass.

I am a universally liked guy. People know me as bright, funny, intelligent, and a pleasure to be around. I was elected the vice-president of my high school (and at my school, the government isn't really a nerdy thing to be a part of), by almost 85 percent of the vote. Around campus, I'm the man. There is no doubt in my mind that people universally love and respect me.

However much girls like to chat with me, or spend time with me, I feel that they don't really have much further interest in me. It might stem from the fact that while I'm of a normal height (about 5'11), I'm pretty thin for that height. I'm not an unattractive guy at all I don't think, but among 16-17 year olds, what are women honestly expecting?

I think it was a confidence factor for a few years there, but now I can pull of a conversation with anyone. It has greatly improved. What are the tactics to being that really attractive guy?

I feel like High School is kind of a lost cause, and am hoping to just develop some good habits so that when I have a fresh slate for college, I can step up the game. If it works out now, that's cool too.

Best,
Jack
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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War Against Betaism

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One of the first things people learn here is that when you're talking with a woman, you have a limited amount of time for them to determine whether you're either a "friend" or "partner". If you're interested in a woman, you have to pursue. Make it obvious but not too obvious that you are interested in her. In high school and the early years of college, a lot more pursuing is done whereas when you get older like in your 30's, you just have to not make mistakes.
 

nicelife

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read up on the bible and go to parties and meet chicks man, dont give up on high school girls ;D

it shouldnt be too hard for you if you've already got a rep, you just gotta show that your interested like the above poster said
 
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